To Be Honest by Maggie Ann Martin (ARC): Body Positivity, Family Issues, and So Much More

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3 stars

Savannah has a lot on her plate. Besides being home without her sister as a buffer between Savvy and her mother, Savannah has to deal with her mother’s obsession with weight growing deeper and her pressure for Savvy to be constantly mindful of what she eats growing stronger.

Between her mom’s diet-helicoptering, missing her sister, and worrying about her collegiate future and the article she’s trying to write, Savvy has enough to worry about. Meeting George, the cute new kid at school who has insecurities of his own, lets both of them discover how to live in the moment and enjoy the here and now before it disappears.

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I honestly have a lot of mixed feelings about this book.

loved Martin’s debut–it was such a light, fun, and comical contemporary! It was sweet, funny, and a total blast to read.

And in a lot of ways, To Be Honest shares a lot of similarities with The Big F. But in a way, I feel like the similarities took away some of the good things about To Be Honest.

To Be Honest tackles a lot of more serious topics than just failing class–eating disorders and weight loss and divorce and a whole bunch of other topics that carry a lot of emotional weight for people. But I feel like it kept the same sort of jolly tone that was present in The Big F, which made the story not really click for me.

There are seriously a bunch of things jammed into this novel–Savannah’s insecurities as one of them. And for something that’s less than 300 pages, I felt like we just didn’t get enough examination of any of the themes–her mom’s fixation on weight loss, Savannah’s news story about the funding gap between the girls’ and guys’ team, Savannah’s own insecurities and her relationship with George, or Savannah’s relationship with her dad after the divorce.

I liked Savannah and thought she was definitely a fun protagonist–she has a strong voice and she’s just a great person that you’d want to be friends with. I think Savannah herself is probably the best part about this book, because she really feels super genuine.

That being said, I still think Martin did not do nearly enough examination on any of the major themes. It made it feel like Martin wasn’t taking the topics seriously, and I wish this book was longer and more drawn out.

Some of the scenes felt rushed–even the Very Big scenes that would be life changing events. It wasn’t just that these scenes didn’t get enough page time–it was also that the emotional weight to these circumstances didn’t match the severity of the event.

What Martin did address of these themes though, I think she did very well. We learn a lot about Savannah’s insecurities and the romance is frankly, adorable, and it all wraps together pretty nicely, if not somewhat shortly.

I love how Martin talked about body positivity and weight loss especially, not just because of an #OwnVoices standpoint, but also because she points out the issue with those extreme weight loss shows and really asserts her view of loving your body.

The contrast between the view on weight & being fat of Savannah and her mom was drastically different, and this is probably one of this novel’s themes that I think Martin did the best with. I did want a little more on this, but I think this was one of the themes that was most explored with Savannah’s concern for her mother’s health and trying to find the happy medium between boundaries and concern.

Overall, I think the premise was good, but the execution made this book not as good as it could have been because the tone matched a romantic comedy rather than the more serious novel To Be Honest. If you think the premise sounds interesting, then I definitely recommend you check this out! It’s still a quick and easy read, regardless of depth.

Thank you so much to Swoon Reads @ Book Con for providing me with an advance reader’s copy in exchange for an honest review! 

much love, vicky

Have you read any of Martin’s work? Are you excited for To Be Honest?

7 thoughts on “To Be Honest by Maggie Ann Martin (ARC): Body Positivity, Family Issues, and So Much More

  1. I liked this book but also gave it only 3 stars. I wish the issues with Savannah’s mom had been fleshed out a little more, because that seemed to be the main focus of the book, or at least it seemed to be one of the more important aspects. I wanted to see it dealt with more in Savannah’s relationship with her sister, since I felt like they kind of glossed over it in sceneswhen they were together. I’d be curious to read the author’s other book, and I’m really happy to hear To Be Honest was #OwnVoices! Great review 🙂

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    1. yeah, I just wish there was MORE. I felt like it needed more examination of all the subplots because it all felt very glossed over and loose at the end. and thank you!

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  2. Lovely review, Vicky! I read The Big F by this author and enjoyed it, I was looking to add this one to my TBR already. I think I might, but I’m sorry to hear you felt like the important issues weren’t given more time in the book, it’s always a bit frustrating whenever that happens :/
    Great review! ❤

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    1. You could definitely end up loving it! All in all, it just kind of felt like this book was a little loose with all the subplots and wasn’t resolved as much as I wanted to. I hope you do end up enjoying it!

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  3. I just finished this book today, and overall, I liked it (4/5). That was mostly due to the strength of Savannah, who was wonderful, and I cared so much for. My hangup was that there were a bunch of subplots, that felt unfinished. They were good, but were either tied up too quickly or not tied up at all.

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    1. Savannah was such a wonderful character! All the loose ends really bothered me and was mostly the reason why this rating wasn’t as high as I expected. So glad you enjoyed, though!

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